2 Comments Family & de facto law, financial agreements, consent orders
you neglected to mention his relationship with the kids!! Wouldn't that be the most important thing.Are the kids suffering? Are they happy?
I think if you spent less time running around chasing how much money you think you have rights to and focused on quality time with your kids it will work.
Also try another approach..look at it from his position. You could set up a trust in his name that he pays money into and only use for expenses related to the kids...what father would knock that back????.
Money is not everything, sure its a nessesary evil but its impact on a child can affect them in a real negative way which should be a concern for both of you.